My 4 Top Nigerian Blogs

I wouldn’t want to write an epistle on this topic, but here you go…….

  1. Linda Ikeji blog- for juicy gist/news/gossip and most especially the comments…Nigerians do have opinions.
  2. Bellanija blog- Who does not like admiring good things, if you don’t like fake/true engagement stories on the blog or wedding gowns and other fashion innuendos as a lady, what else do you fancy please?
  3. Thelma think blog- My friend introduced me to her blog, I just liked her blog because she shares same name with my  elder Sister, Teema. Finally when you are addicted to something, you truly are.
  4. Sisi Yemmi blog/vlog/Tv- I used to visit her blog site because her baby Sister couldn’t stop talking about her Sister’s blog, then her vlogs omg are just too Amazing.

Who are your Favorite bloggers and their blog sites because I would love to visit their sites.




My dream traditional marriage

Nigerian Music videos can to a large extent portray what some of us have in mind and in some cases be spot on. Seriously guys, this video got my cranial juices flowing. Just yesterday I wanted to write about Yoruba traditional/engagement parry and I felt the need to fuse some elements from a Yoruba ceremony with that of the Ibo’s when I get married and I can imagine how colourful and entertaining that would be. For a moment I wondered what life would be like or better still what Ibo traditional ceremonies would be like if my Ibo Ancestors, (lol) borrowed a leaf from the Yoruba’s and integrated the Alaga Ijoko into them. What a day that would be…

Have you guys heard of the Alaga Ijoko? For those of you that have no idea, an Alaga is a traditional master of ceremony, usually a relative of the bride whose main function is to preside over the ceremony making sure the traditional rites are observed and above all to make sure she bills the groom as much as she can in a fun and loving way with a smile on her face off course. Their presence is expensive to the groom, na wah the groom and his men must drop some real cash o! This had me thinking could it be why the Ibo’s don’t have such expensive item as the Yoruba Alaga Ijoko.

I also wonder if the Alaga Ijoko are MC’s we have in our Ibo marriages yes i think so. Don’t get me wrong guys, I do love my Ibo tradition but i’m just showing some love and respect for our ethnic diversity. Also have you seen the groom and his men prostrate in-front of his parent in-laws begging for his bride. Oh Lord of Zachariah, I would love that on my trad marriage.

Guys this video if fantastic,it will do justice to what i am talking about.  Finally guys, like the caption of the video says, “marry me” , if you are 27, 28 and some other twenties like me please share your wedding date by commenting below. Thanks, Cheers, and please i am joking o!



Was your dad this playful, like Julius Agwu?

Julius Agwu and his Kids!!!! Please o, how many of us can relate to this video clip, did your Dad,daddy,Papa,Posi,Parley,Papi etc ever play this way with you, if you were born in Nigeria or may any part of the world and in the 70’s,80’s maybe early part of 90’s abeg, please don’t just raise your hand. I can give exception to some people sha…….LOL!


Video Credit- Instagram

 Nigerian University dropout becomes a stockbroker after using his student loan to start trading & now earns £30,000 on a bad month

Source:  Linda Ikeji’s Blog

Wherever you are Elijah come and show us the way, Lol. For those stock brokers and Forex traders in the house please take note.

My ex bae the heartbreaker

“I was in love, Pam, madly in love with my ex bae” AJ said and  i was like, bia which one is ex bae biko?. Anyways, this is a sad story on how love was blind and couldn’t see. He told me this happened two years back. So ladies and gents, please take a seat and read.

Story in AJ’s Voice……………..

I had  a girl friend, I loved her so much that I wanted to settle down with her when the time was right. Everything was going on so fine until I decided to make a meaning out of my life by traveling to the UK to further my studies. I sat her down and told her of my plans. She was happy initially until she started listening to advice from friends who told her of how men travel abroad and forget their girlfriends. Pam, I told her that I would never do that to her. To show you how serious I was, I introduced her to my parents and siblings and she was officially known as Aj’s girlfriend.

Anyways fast forward to after my travel, we had our ups and downs, we quarreled o, broke up, made up, broke up again and to be honest the last time we made up, I promised to work hard on the relationship by communicating always wit her, and that made our relationship stronger. Prior to the time of my graduation, I wanted my girl to come visit, I made sure I worked twice as hard just to ensure she got a visa, so she could be by my side. Pam Pam as AJ called me, he continued…

I helped her apply for a visiting visa to come to the UK, I paid for her flight and I AJ secured her accommodation for the duration of her visit. As a young man, what else did she need me to do to prove my undying love for her. Anyways, she came over for my graduation, spent few months after my graduation and while on her vacation something happened.

My girlfriend woke me up one night, and started shedding tears. she told me how time was not on her side and how unsure she was that I will marry her. I assured her that I shall definitely do some form of introduction before the end of the year. She totally refused and asked me for one unreasonable favor. This girl asked me to get her pregnant, I shouted what!? “You are asking me for an impossible thing” I told her, I have assured you of my undying love but she kept on ranting until I gave in.

In order not to bore you with Aj’s story let me complete the gist for him…

That was how Aj said he fired the babe o, fire for fire for those who understand what I mean for those who do not, he said he obliged his babe and did not give her breathing space from that night onward. One faithful day a few minutes after Aj got to work his phone started buzzing, guess what? it was his flat mate calling him. He told him how his babe collapsed and he called an ambulance to attend to her. Aj excused himself from work and rushed to the hospital to attend to his family emergency.

Ladies and gents the long and short story is that he was told his babe was preggers, yes o! pregnant. He was happy but he didn’t want to share the news immediately with his folks. As a proud future father, all things were fair and equal that is he was happy that he had fulfilled his babes wish until she woke him up again another night from his deep and sweet sleep. A bit perplexed Aj asked what the issue was and In tears again, bae was ranting on how she doesn’t want to keep the pregnancy any more. He tried convincing her, and asked her to take it off when she gets back to Nigeria, but as a sharp babe she convinced him otherwise. Aj was a man in love, just trying to make his heartthrob happy. Little did he know she was brewing something cunning and crafty.

She made him do what he swore never in his life to do, bae had a procedure done to make her desire come to fruition. She went back home few weeks later after executing her plans with clinical precision and artistry and innocent Aj joined her months later. Aj stayed with his parents on his return to home, as usual bae came visiting. Few days later there was a misunderstanding which resulted in the intervention of Aj’s father. Thinking the worse was over Aj went over to bae’s place after they had settled the misunderstanding and the unimaginable happened. On that faithful day, he asked her for her phone to play some songs and she obliged him.

I guarantee you that checking bae’s phone have cost most relationships these days. Although Aj only was checking her music list when he stumbled on a video. He clicked on it, Lo and behold what he beheld was enough to send him to the ER (emergency room). He saw one neighbor that he has always been suspecting of doing the unimaginable with his wife to be doing the unthinkable. They successfully imitated Kim K and Ray Jay’s explosive movie, if you get what I mean. Aj broke down in tears and mostly in despair.

The reason for Aj’s return was to put a ring on it, to borrow a leaf from Queen B. However with the turn of events Aj had a rethink and made excuses not to carry on with the introduction then wedding as he intended. He never shared the true reasons for this decision with baes family so as not to cast her in bad light and for the love they shared. this was how the cookie crumbled.

After wearing my detective thinking cap, I came up with this scenario, please pay attention. Bae was pregnant before arriving in the UK after collecting a few rounds for the road, unknown to her. when she discovered this and realised she would be in the UK for a couple of months and wont be able to explain immaculate conception from safe driving (keeping it clean as its the new year) she decided to manipulate his love for her and asked him for a baby (how convenient, the bun was in the oven already). phase 2 of the plan: now officially preggy, Aj would in a matter of time find out that conception must ave taken place without his knowledge from tests and also she acted hormonal and did not want baby any more. Bae had Aj eating from the palm of her hands all because she knew he loved her only to use him to execute her plans which she achieved anyways and I say to myself how heartless can she be? This is the stuff movies are made of, one can safely say bae should be working for the CIA. I rest my case people, I duff my detective hat and say do you agree?

I hope you guys enjoyed today’s post, please leave your comments below,and also share.

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Happy New Year my darling Readers

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Happy new year my darling readers, 2016 is here already and am really excited. You are all free to ask me why? Why is because Y has two branches and one tail as we often used to say, Lol (My Nija peeps will understand this). I am only joking o! But jokes apart guys, I think on the 30th of December, I wrote down some goals i would like to accomplish in 2016 which I can only share with myself, hahahha, don’t worry guys I will share them as testimonies soon, but I am excited for the gift of life and grace.

Anyways, i went to church yesterday which was the 31st o! And the theme of the year 2016 is ‘My year of Spreading’. One might ask, what are you spreading? Lol, my dear a lot o. Wait till i give you load down of what i am spreading. But eh, don’t ask me when I became a pastor because you wont get an answer.

Back to reality, have we ever read Genesis 28:14 which says:

“Your descendants will also be like the dust of the earth, and you will spread out to the west and to the east and to the north and to the south; and in you and in your descendants shall all the families of the earth be blessed”.

My Sisters and brethren, that is how you will spread all over the world and through you many on this earth will be blessed. Just know you are unstoppable. You can also read Genesis 30:43, Genesis 26: 1 and  2 Chronicles 26:15 which says

” In Jerusalem he made engines of war invented by skillful men to be on the towers and on the corners for the purpose of shooting arrows and great stones. Hence his fame spread afar, for he was marvelously helped until he was strong”.

My Prayer is that our Fame, yes Pam d’coque’s Blog readers fame will spread afar, in the east, west, north and south and we all will be marvelously helped until we are strong and are able to help others too. hahahaha.

Please guys also read  Matthew 13:33, Leviticus 2:11 and finally Leviticus 23:17. The word Leaven mentioned in Leviticus is that which is used in baking bread guys. It is also known as yeast.  A rising agent used in baking all sorts of baked food like dough, pies etc. Now  guys my next prayer for us all in this year of Spreading is that we shall rise,increase, expand and we shall be called unstoppable extensions because whatever we purpose in our hearts to do we shall accomplish them, they will grow and expand. And can somebody shout Amen there Please.

Lastly before I end my sermon, Please note that, the unstoppable spread in the gospel should be our number 1 priority. I pray there would be an unstoppable increase in your life in all directions and lastly an unstoppable growth and dominion in your circumstances. I hope to see increase in your life soon.

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