Surprise Party


20160702_220046I woke up with my legs aching guys, I woke up tired and fatigued on Monday morning. Hmmm! Hope you all still remember I promised to share exclusive gist about my weekend? If you did not remember still read on with all enthusiasm and gusto.

My tiredness was as a result of a busy Friday, a restless Friday night and a quick travel to Leeds over the weekend which turned out to be a recipe for knackeredness if there is such a word. My people, a dear friend in whom I am well pleased decided to return to Nigeria from the UK for a reason I will mention much later in this gist and I and a few friends decided to plan a surprise party just so she knows she will be missed. She can’t just decide to stop paying taxes to the queen just like that and we will not make sure she misses us. She didn’t see it coming as I kept my cool and avoided her which was no mean feat. I guess she felt alone and abandoned by the people she called friends but i’m glad to know she felt different by the end of Saturday evening.20160702_212728

Anyways we the committee members (her close pals) made it happen. She was surprised to her bones that she cried all night and for hours Unended, but I refused to join the league, lol. I did the best I could do to cheer her up and stop her from crying, I let her know she still got me as a friend regardless how far we are from each other and I was a call or text away.

Guys, she traveled to get married oh. My friend is moving from the singles and content club to the association of married women. I am happy for her and I wish her well. I know she will make a good wife to her husband and vice versa.

Her decision to leave the UK was not the easiest decision to make as she had built a family here, it was quite hard accepting and coming to terms with the decision she had made. Given that the Nigerian economy is not a bed of roses at the moment it felt like she was not making the right choice and I hoped this would have discouraged her from leaving. Right now the rich in Nigeria are crying like the soup opera we saw in those days ‘the rich also Cry’.

Amidst all, my friend shines in all things as she makes difficult situations look undaunting. So the minute she told me she was ready to leave I was not scared for her at all. I usually pick out morals of the lesson from each situation. Lessons learned from this is, never ever be too scared of the unknown. That means asking how will I survive, how will I adjust, how this, and how that. Those precious moments ¬†used in debating in your heart, just say to yourself ‘ALL THINGS WORK TOGETHER FOR MY GOOD’. This, I tell you works.

So I am proud of my friend and can’t wait to visit Nigeria to see her again, and for all those who she directly or indirectly made impacts in their lives all I can say is take a cue and make more impacts in other people’s lives like she did.

In order not to bore you with this, I will like to place a kind and humble reminder for you all to read and comment on any of my recent posts(any post In July) as I will select winners at the end of July for the cash price.

I love you all and so have a lovely week ahead

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Going by the blog name, an Nnewi south breed, Aba brought up, UK poshed up and Heavens Angel..
B.SC Mass communication
MA Management (Human Resources)
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9 thoughts on “Surprise Party”

  1. Ma dear, have been reading ur posts and I must confess, u re doing a gud job. Ma lil loving pamcy has transformed into a much much more beautiful lady ready to make her own impacts in life. My prayers are with you. I know it hasn’t been easy but God will surely see u through (amen). In no distant time, d world will celebrate. More grace!

  2. Wow…… The surprise party was ideal…. It shows she got herself some real good friends. Keep it up dearie… *ehugs&wipestears*

  3. Aw..I owe this to Amazing n sweet friends like Pam n everyone that pulled this through for me. Pam uve got such a great and selfless heart, I can’t ever wish for a better friend. One who’s been there through thick and thin, one who has taught me to be brave and calm in d midst of chaos, one who’s always got my back, one with whom we both share happy and sad times together.
    I thank God for bringing you my way Pam, you’re indeed d definition of a true friend. Keep staying strong and Positive. I pray God continues to uphold and lift u up as u keep being a blessing to those around you. You’ll keep being celebrated among ur peers. Keep shining as always. Love you girl!!!
    Chinny.

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